{"id":148,"date":"2009-01-30T10:36:11","date_gmt":"2009-01-30T16:36:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/one-church.net\/wordpress\/?p=148"},"modified":"2009-01-30T10:36:11","modified_gmt":"2009-01-30T16:36:11","slug":"to-hypocrite-or-not-to-hypocrite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/2009\/01\/30\/to-hypocrite-or-not-to-hypocrite\/","title":{"rendered":"To hypocrite, or not to hypocrite"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Don\u2019t you hate it when you have to practice what you preach? You know, those great moments of accountability that you prepare for your whole life while simultaneously praying never arrive. I\u2019m not just talking about the little things either:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0\u201cKids, eat your veggies,\u201d and now a huge plate of asparagus stares you in the face<\/li>\n<li>\u201cDon\u2019t drive like a maniac,\u201d and now your 20 minutes away from a super important meeting that starts in 10 minutes<\/li>\n<li>\u201cJust chill out and quit worrying,\u201d and now, well, you fill in the blank with anything. Am I right?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These little moments of accountability test our character everyday and threaten to label us \u201cGenuine\u201d or \u201cHypocrite\u201d depending on our response.<\/p>\n<p>Even if no one else knows, we\u2019ll know.<\/p>\n<p>But, every now and then comes a big test. Something that will really cost us something and totally begs the question, \u201cDo you really believe all the junk you say?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Which, by the way, is probably one of the best questions we could ever ask ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>So, here\u2019s the set up. I had just delivered a message to our faith community on a Wednesday night that I was totally passionate about. It\u2019s from a passage I have journaled about, I\u2019ve spoken on when I am on the road and even blogged about a few months ago (<a href=\"http:\/\/crosseyedlife.com\/2008\/03\/07\/a-teeny-tiny-god.aspx\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #333333;\">A teeny tiny god<\/span><\/a>). This is one of those life changing passages for me that&#8217;s\u00a0all about how God wants His people to do ministry.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0So, here\u2019s the crux. First the passage, and then what it means to be a minister (and we are all ministers if Jesus is in our heart):<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"margin-right: 0px;\" dir=\"ltr\"><p>\u00a0<strong>Peter Heals the Crippled Beggar<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>\u00a0 3\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 One day Peter and John were going up to the temple at the time of prayer\u2014at three in the afternoon. 2 Now a man crippled from birth was being carried to the temple gate called Beautiful, where he was put every day to beg from those going into the temple courts. 3 When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for money. 4 Peter looked straight at him, as did John. Then Peter said, \u201cLook at us!\u201d 5 So the man gave them his attention, expecting to get something from them.<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 6 Then Peter said, \u201cSilver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.\u201d 7 Taking him by the right hand, he helped him up, and instantly the man\u2019s feet and ankles became strong. 8 He jumped to his feet and began to walk. Then he went with them into the temple courts, walking and jumping, and praising God. 9 When all the people saw him walking and praising God, 10 they recognized him as the same man who used to sit begging at the temple gate called Beautiful, and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him. <\/em><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">The Holy Bible : New International Version. 1996, c1984 (Ac 3:1-10). Grand Rapids: Zondervan.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>ONE DAY \u2013<\/strong> Ministry happens anytime, anywhere. We should have our eyes open to opportunities to be the hands and feet of Jesus at the pleasure of God and His will. To put it bluntly, if He is Lord, then He has the right to interrupt your life. Ministry isn\u2019t a scheduled activity if you are a minister. It&#8217;s not what you do, it&#8217;s who you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>LOOKED STRAIGHT AT HIM \u2013<\/strong> Ministry is a close contact sport. It\u2019s the opposite of sterile and easy. It\u2019s down, dirty and hard. Real ministry requires eye contact and that creates intimacy which is difficult, dangerous and often devastating to your schedule, plans and life. We don\u2019t do ministry \u2018to\u2019 people, we do ministry \u2018for\u2019 and even \u2018with\u2019 real people we look straight in the eye.<\/p>\n<p><strong>WHAT I HAVE I GIVE YOU \u2013<\/strong> Ministry is about whatever you have. There are no categories you have to fit into, no standards you have to arrive at, no spectacle you must produce. Ministry is more than preachers and teachers (Please, God, let this be true). It\u2019s mechanics, diaper changers, pray-ers, hand holders, planners, leaders, followers, doers. Whatever you have, that\u2019s what you give.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TAKING HIM BY THE HAND \u2013<\/strong> Finally, ministry requires more than a good idea and a vision statement. You have to do the work. At some point you have to suck it up and quit talking, praying and singing. You have to take the broken by the hand and help them up and out of the pit. That is our job.<\/p>\n<p>(Then I talked about the progression of the ministeree who walked, jumped and praised God. We can\u2019t expect them to be spiritual giants out of the chute. Give them time to walk before they jump, and time to leap before they praise)<\/p>\n<p>If I may say so\u2026 I was amazing. Words on paper cannot do justice to the power of the message that night. I get goose bumps thinking about my awesomess. Only exceeded, of course, by my humility.<\/p>\n<p>Okay\u2026 maybe it was more the Scripture being uber cool\u2026 maybe.<\/p>\n<p>So, that\u2019s all the set up to what happened 36 hours later. My wife and I are scrambling to get out of town on a vacation. Packing bags, sending mail, running errands, dropping the kids off with grandma for a week (there is a GOD!) before a romantic Caribbean cruise.<\/p>\n<p>As we are wrapping up and walking through the Dillon\u2019s Grocery Store parking lot headed to Grandmas for kisses, hugs and goodbyes with our boys, what do we see?<\/p>\n<p>There was a 70-80 year old man in a late model pick up with a flat. He\u2019s just standing there looking at it as cars are driving around him and others in the parking lot are just staring.<\/p>\n<p>We all do this in our heads, here are the reasons I can&#8217;t help him:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>We\u2019re in a time crunch, we have to leave<\/li>\n<li>If I help him I won\u2019t get to say goodbye to my boys, and I am a family man<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019m in good clothes and don\u2019t have time to change before I leave<\/li>\n<li>There are a bizzilion people in the parking lot, surely someone will help him<\/li>\n<li>I am incredibly selfish and just remembered if He is Lord, he has the right to interrupt my plans<\/li>\n<li>Ooooooo, that last one trumps them all. Man, why can&#8217;t I just be a sinner&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>So I pat my kids on the head and say I\u2019ll see you in a week, and make plans to meet up with my wife for a mad dash as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>I asked this elderly guy if I could help and he was more than ready for some aid. Said he\u2019d never changed a tire before. I believe him. Especially on this truck.<\/p>\n<p>The jack was broke, the tire tool was the wrong size and every lug nut was rusted on.<\/p>\n<p>During the 40 minutes it took to change this tire (not my best pit crew record) I made a few categorizations of people during times of need. Here they are:<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Pointer \u2013 <\/strong>Don\u2019t be this guy. As I walked up there was man standing on the curb pointing at the flat tire. First of all, I\u2019m pretty sure the old guy didn\u2019t need any help finding the trouble with his truck. I can\u2019t see anyway he would have assumed that he had one good tire and the other three just decided to swell up real bad. \u201cOh, thank you mister pointer guy. If it hadn\u2019t been for you I\u2019d have spent the rest of this afternoon deflating my other three tires to make a matching set.\u201d Pointers are like preachers who like to talk about everyone\u2019s problems, but don\u2019t offer any grace, solutions or help. Don\u2019t be the pointer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The\u00a0Gawker \u2013 <\/strong>As I was cranking on those rusted lugs I saw a ton of this. People staring and whispering, but the worst was a guy who pulled up and parked right next to us. He didn\u2019t even get out to go in the store, but just sat in the driver\u2019s seat with the car running to keep warm. You could see him get a little frustrated whenever I would have to impede his vision by working from one specific angle and he would lean way over to try and see around me. \u201cPardon me buddy, I\u2019ll try and be a little more considerate and not disrupt your viewing pleasure.\u201d Apparently, I wasn\u2019t entertaining enough as he finally gave up and went inside and did his shopping. Gawkers are like church members who want to offer their opinion on everything, but lend their hand to nothing. Again, don\u2019t be the gawker.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Cheerleader \u2013 <\/strong>No kidding, this really happened, I can\u2019t make this up. While I was on the ground trying to use a broken jack someone passed by the far side of truck and actually said, \u201cYou go Pastor Andy!\u201d It\u2019s a good thing I was on my face under a truck and couldn\u2019t see them, because if I was upright I would have chunked a tire tool at them (with all the Christian love I could muster). I know there are probably a million reason why they just made a passing comment, and I am sure they we\u2019re trying to be encouraging, but don\u2019t forget what James says: <em>\ufeff\u201cWhat good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him?\u00a0 \ufeffSuppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food.\u00a0 \ufeffIf one of you says to him, \u201cGo, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,\u201d but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?\u00a0 \ufeffIn the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.\u201d <\/em><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">The Holy Bible\u00a0 : New International Version. 1996, c1984 (Jas 2:14-17). Grand Rapids: Zondervan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>The Doer \u2013 <\/strong>Then, about halfway through the process I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned and saw a friendly face from Venue 302. That\u2019s when these words from a member of our faith community made my day, \u201cCan I help?\u201d Taking turns working on those rusty lugs, new ideas for working with broken tools, and laughing at how far we\u2019d gotten with a jack that only went halfway up and tire tool that didn\u2019t fit, it was the first time I\u2019d been warm that hour. In ministry you don\u2019t have to have all the answers, all the strength, all the anything, you just need to be there. He was awesome.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Tool Bringer \u2013<\/strong> Finally, we had come to the end of it. We got the old tire off, but just could not get the donut spare on because the jack was about an inch too low. I even grabbed the bumper and tried a squat lift while my buddy tried to slip it on. Did I mention that in my mind I am incredibly buff? In my head, wow, am I in shape. But, nothing. Enter our final contestant: another guy shows up and says, \u201cCould you guys use a real jack?\u201d I think my response was something like, \u201cYou have no idea.\u201d Once he brought the right tools to the job, we were good to go in a matter of moments. This should remind us that we all have a certain set of skills and gifts, and without you there are so many tasks that either aren\u2019t being done, or aren\u2019t being done well.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be a pointer, gawker or cheerleader, but be a doer and tool bringer.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t get to say goodbye to my kids, I did get dirty and we were late, but I wasn\u2019t a hypocrite (for once).<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly I was what God wanted me to be. I bet you think I am going to \u2018minister\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Nope. I was His.<\/p>\n<p><em>Jesus told him, \u201cGo and do likewise.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">The Holy Bible\u00a0 : New International Version. 1996, c1984 (Lk 10:37). Grand Rapids: Zondervan.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>___________________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p>On a side note, for those of you in our faith community we talked about evidences for God this past week and\u00a0I promised some online resources to follow up. Here you go: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.andyaddis.com\/resources\/PROOFS%20OF%20GOD.doc\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #333333;\">Proofs of God word document<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don\u2019t you hate it when you have to practice what you preach? You know, those great moments of accountability that you prepare for your whole life while simultaneously praying never arrive. I\u2019m not just talking about the little things either: \u201cKids, eat your veggies,\u201d and now a huge plate of asparagus stares you in the face \u201cDon\u2019t drive like a maniac,\u201d and now your 20 minutes away from a super important meeting that starts in 10 minutes \u201cJust chill out and quit worrying,\u201d and now, well, you fill in the blank with anything. Am I right? These little moments of accountability test our character everyday and threaten to label us \u201cGenuine\u201d or \u201cHypocrit\u201d depending on our response. Even if no one else knows, we\u2019ll know. But, every now and then comes a big test. Something that will eally cost us something and totally begs the question, \u201cDo you really believe all the junk you say?\u201d Which, by the way, is probably one of the best questions we could ever ask ourselves.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[13,15,39,44,49,55,67],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}