{"id":2302,"date":"2014-03-21T07:46:19","date_gmt":"2014-03-21T13:46:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/?p=2027"},"modified":"2014-03-21T07:46:19","modified_gmt":"2014-03-21T13:46:19","slug":"one-common-denominator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/2014\/03\/21\/one-common-denominator\/","title":{"rendered":"One Common Denominator"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Math is hard.<\/p>\n<p>I know math is easier for some than others, but at some level everybody must admit, math is hard.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Equation3A.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2029\" alt=\"Equation3A\" src=\"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Equation3A-300x153.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"153\" \/><\/a>Some fall off at trigonometry, others with calculus, and some algebra. For me, saying I fall off at algebra is a stretch. I capped out somewhere near fractions.<\/p>\n<p>My kids lost some of their innocence in the sixth grade. I stopped appearing to be the all-knowing, ever-flowing fountain of knowledge when they brought home math homework.<\/p>\n<p>We needed a tutor two nights each week. One night for them, and one for me.<\/p>\n<p>Math is hard.<\/p>\n<p>Still, there is one lesson from the math universe I\u2019ve never forgotten; the quest for the one common denominator.<\/p>\n<p>A common denominator is defined, as found on the ironically named mathisfun.com website, \u201cdenominators (or the bottom number in a fraction) in two or more fractions that are common, or the same.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I remember grueling hours of scrawling down numbers, erasing them and trying to find that one common denominator.<\/p>\n<p>Finding the one common denominator meant you had simplified the equation and were seeing it as clearly as you possibly could.<\/p>\n<p>This is a skill I wish we could use outside the world of math.<\/p>\n<p>If we\u2019re honest with ourselves, we might discover that one common denominator that keeps turning up in so many aspects of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>As a pastor of more than 20 years, and an observer of life and all its ups and downs, I think I can clearly say that most people who have multiple problems\u2026 actually don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Consider, when we think we have multiple problems, what if we actually have a single problem multiplying itself in our life. A common denominator that is affecting everything else:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00a0\u201cThere are no good men anymore,\u201d she said.<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0\u201cEvery boss I\u2019ve ever worked for is an idiot,\u201d he said.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cAll my teachers are against me,\u201d the student said.<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0\u201cEvery friend I\u2019ve ever had has stabbed me in the back,\u201d they said.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cNo one in this town can drive,\u201d said everyone at some point.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you look closely, you may be able to reduce the above scenarios down to their common denominator. For example, it\u2019s not very likely that every teacher you\u2019ve ever had has been out to get you. But, the one common denominator in every classroom you have been in\u2026 well, there\u2019s no easy way to say it, is you.<\/p>\n<p>Without a doubt, I have seen myself as the one common denominator again and again. When my kids are irritating, my wife misses the point and everyone at the church just doesn\u2019t understand\u2026 I probably need to reduce the equation.<\/p>\n<p>For whatever reason, it\u2019s me again. The one common denominator.<\/p>\n<p>If you suspect you may be the one common denominator, one way to turn it around is to remember Romans 12:13, \u201cFor by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cut the world around you a little slack, and make sure you hold yourself accountable for things like humility, courtesy and respect.<\/p>\n<p>Wake up every morning remembering that we are all sinners, lost without the grace of Jesus and needing to be transformed by His resurrection power.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t do anything about the world around you, but you can confess your sinfulness, you can surrender to the Savior and you can take care of at least one thing\u2026 one common denominator.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Math is hard. I know math is easier for some than others, but at some level everybody must admit, math is hard. Some fall off at trigonometry, others with calculus, and some algebra. For me, saying I fall off at algebra is a stretch. I capped out somewhere near fractions. 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