{"id":2310,"date":"2014-12-05T12:18:17","date_gmt":"2014-12-05T18:18:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/?p=2104"},"modified":"2014-12-05T12:18:17","modified_gmt":"2014-12-05T18:18:17","slug":"rudolph-needs-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/index.php\/2014\/12\/05\/rudolph-needs-therapy\/","title":{"rendered":"Rudolph needs therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Rudolph needs to see a good Christian counselor\u2026<a href=\"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/rudolph.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2107\" src=\"http:\/\/www.crosseyedlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/rudolph-300x255.jpg\" alt=\"\u0414\u043b\u044f \u0418\u043d\u0442\u0435\u0440\u043d\u0435\u0442\u0430\" width=\"300\" height=\"255\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I love the Christmas season and anyone riding in car with me post Halloween will know Holiday music is top on my list.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sacred Christmas carols\u2026 the best!<\/li>\n<li>Traditional Christmas classics\u2026 love them!<\/li>\n<li>Hokey secular holiday fare\u2026 bring it!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I love it all, but I have to admit there is a song that has begun to bother me over the last couple of years. Maybe it is because my own personal growth has revealed some \u0414\u043b\u044f \u0418\u043d\u0442\u0435\u0440\u043d\u0435\u0442\u0430things to me.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it is because my years in pastoring have trained my ear to hear things a little differently. Maybe I just never listened to it closely before, but I have come to a conclusion that Rudolph needs Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>While I love everything about the holiday, I love that every bit of it stems from the coming of our Savior Jesus the Christ.<\/p>\n<p>Even the secular stuff makes me happy, because it causes the world to frame a whole season to include Jesus, whether they like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>But, as I have been listening to the children\u2019s classic Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, I fear that after all these years, he is still missing it.<\/p>\n<p>So, my dear friend Rudolph, if you are reading this, please take these words from a loving brother who only wants you to enjoy the real meaning of the season.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen,<br \/>\nyou know Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen,<br \/>\nBut do you recall?<br \/>\nThe most famous reindeer of all?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Rudolph, it\u2019s obvious that you have deeply embedded feelings of insignificance. In a huge world, drifting in a massive universe, it\u2019s easy to feel small. Also, coming from a large family can sometimes make one feel overlooked, cast aside and devalued.<\/p>\n<p>Dasher was a bully who raced you everywhere, and growing up with that prima donna Prancer would be tough for any of us, but you can\u2019t let their actions define you.<\/p>\n<p>Psalm 139 teaches us that each one of us was carefully created by the God of the universe Himself. If for no other reason than that, you have incredible value!<\/p>\n<p><em>Psalm 139:13 (ESV) &#8211; For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother\u2019s womb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t let the fact that Cupid withheld love from you change the fact that you are infinitely valuable simply because your Heavenly Father made you that way.<\/p>\n<p>When no one else remembers, He recalls your name.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer<br \/>\nHas a very shiny nose<br \/>\nAnd if you ever saw it<br \/>\nYou would even say it glows.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>My friend Rudolph, you are not alone, we all struggle with our appearance. We have a world bent on image, putting up false fronts and practiced in the art of putting on a show every time you step out of the house.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not healthy, and caving into the pressures of the image culture will only make things worse. Some of the best \u2018looking\u2019 people in the world are monumentally unhappy because you can\u2019t airbrush away reality!<\/p>\n<p>Let me be honest with you\u2026 I had the very same problem a few years ago.<\/p>\n<p>A very red, shiny, nose, and this was in the days before proactive. There was nothing to do but hope and pray it would go away. Sometimes, you couldn\u2019t even blow your nose because it was so painful.<\/p>\n<p>But, nothing is more painful than having someone point it out and even say it glows\u2026 people can just be mean.<\/p>\n<p>Always remember that every part of you and every phase you go through is part of God\u2019s wonderful plan for you!<\/p>\n<p><em>Psalm 139:14 (ESV) &#8211; I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That big red nose of yours\u2026 it\u2019s beautiful because the greatest Artist in the universe made it that way.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>All of the other reindeers<br \/>\nUsed to laugh and call him names<br \/>\nThey never let poor Rudolph<br \/>\nJoin in any reindeer games<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Sometimes, we find ourselves in the wrong place at the wrong time. This is never more true than when we long to be in real community with people and just can\u2019t find that right fit.<\/p>\n<p>Rudolph, not finding the right peer group can have devastating consequences, and I just want to say I am sorry for the way you have been treated.<\/p>\n<p>In the same breath though, you have to stop trying to force your way into a group that laughs at you and calls you names. They are intentionally keeping you on the outside; its some kind of stupid reindeer game to them.<\/p>\n<p>God made us to be people in community, and you have a right to be in a family of people who will love you as you are!<\/p>\n<p><em>Romans 15:7 (ESV) &#8211; Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the best thing you can do is leave painful relationships behind and go where God is leading you.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s time you find a new herd?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Then one foggy Christmas Eve,<br \/>\nSanta came to say,<br \/>\nRudolph with your nose so bright,<br \/>\nWon&#8217;t you guide my sleigh tonight?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Oh, no. Don\u2019t fall in the trap Rudolph.<\/p>\n<p>Since the beginning of time we have struggled with misappropriating our value on our achievements. You are worth so much more than the sum of what you can do, produce or offer!<\/p>\n<p>If you get caught in the trap of establishing your value on your performance, you will eventually fail yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter what big whig comes along to puff you up when they need something from you, you need to remember there is a God who loved you and valued you even though you had nothing to offer Him<\/p>\n<p>I know how it goes my friend. You get the phone call from that guy you\u2019ve looked up to for so long, and just because he\u2019s the one that asked, you jump. Next thing you know you are pulling a sleigh full of misery, for a guy who\u2019s using you to get his job done.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ephesians 2:8\u20139 (ESV) &#8211; For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, 9 not a result of works, so that no one may boast.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Your value isn\u2019t in what you do, it\u2019s in who you are.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Then all the reindeers loved him,<br \/>\nAnd they all shouted out with glee,<br \/>\nRudolph the red-nose Reindeer<br \/>\nYou&#8217;ll go down in history!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Rudolph, Rudolph, Rudolph\u2026 chasing applause is like chasing the wind. You can\u2019t base your worth on the opinions of others, because people are broken and frail.<br \/>\nSure, today they love you and are shouting with glee, but what about tomorrow?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a treadmill you do not want to get on!<\/p>\n<p>It feels good, there is no doubt. We love to hear the accolades, we can thrive on the praise, and we can be strengthened by the admiration. But, it\u2019s all temporary like living on a diet of candy canes\u2026 it\u2019s sweet at first but it only leads to a lifetime of tooth decay and diabetes.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t live on the success of Christmas morning all year. By the time mid-January hits you won\u2019t be going down in history, you\u2019ll just be history and yep\u2026 you\u2019re going down.<\/p>\n<p>There is only one Audience you need to be concerned with and He already loves you.<\/p>\n<p><em>John 3:16 (ESV) &#8211; For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Rudolph, you don\u2019t need to go down in history\u2026 He\u2019s already made history for you!<\/p>\n<p>So, my reindeer friend, let me just conclude by saying that this Christmas I hope you find the real meaning of the holiday. No need to play their games, pull their sleigh, or make their record books.<\/p>\n<p>Christmas is about the God of the universe loving you so much, He sent His one and only Son to this place on a rescue mission for us. To save us from ourselves, to save us from each other and give us a life worth living that will prepare us for eternal life with Him.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t miss Christmas this year my friend\u2026 it\u2019s all for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rudolph needs to see a good Christian counselor\u2026 I love the Christmas season and anyone riding in car with me post Halloween will know Holiday music is top on my list. Sacred Christmas carols\u2026 the best! Traditional Christmas classics\u2026 love them! Hokey secular holiday fare\u2026 bring it! 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